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Divorce and blended families

 Divorce is a hard thing to go through in this life. It happens when your marriage does not work out and you can not live with each other. There are so many reasons to get divorced, either you can not work well with each other or abusive or just an unhealthy relationship. I think that people go through different things that can make a marriage fall apart. Some people have affairs with other people and lie and are abusive, with in their marriage, so that is most likely way people get a divorce. And they probably have tried working it out and talking about just getting past it, and some people can move on and work it out and some people can not and they get divorced. Also, the divorce process is super long and tiring and just a hard process. It just depends on the people in the marriage, I think that people should always try to work the problem out before hand and try to make things work, and if it does not work out then file for divorce and get divorced.  Seventy percent with i...

Parenting

 So, parenting can be a very hard job. You are literally raising children to be good people and to adults. What is the purpose of parenting? The purpose is to love your kids and teach them, to prepare them for life, to protect and prepare our children, to survive and thrive in the world in which they live in. Children need to learn respect, cooperation, and response-ability.      Who owns the problems? Parents need to do the poute request, then say the "I feel...", then they need to be firmer, then come up with a logical consequence... (If/ then, logical, firm/ friendly, try again). For teens/ children need natural consequences, except: too dangerous, too far in future, harm others. Both the parents and child need to discuss and talk the problem out and agree on what the consequences are going to be and make sure that they are reasonable and that they will learn something from their consequences.        Needs of child/ teens:   contact a...