Divorce and blended families

 Divorce is a hard thing to go through in this life. It happens when your marriage does not work out and you can not live with each other. There are so many reasons to get divorced, either you can not work well with each other or abusive or just an unhealthy relationship. I think that people go through different things that can make a marriage fall apart. Some people have affairs with other people and lie and are abusive, with in their marriage, so that is most likely way people get a divorce. And they probably have tried working it out and talking about just getting past it, and some people can move on and work it out and some people can not and they get divorced. Also, the divorce process is super long and tiring and just a hard process. It just depends on the people in the marriage, I think that people should always try to work the problem out before hand and try to make things work, and if it does not work out then file for divorce and get divorced. 

Seventy percent with in two years after being divorced they wish they should have saved their marriage. and seventy percent of the men after getting divorced they get remarried with in two years. I think that is because usually if they have kids then the mother gets the kids for more amount of time and so the dad is all alone and getting lonely so they get lady friends and they want to be comforted and loved and having your kids not with you all the time makes you get lonely and want someone to talk to and entertain. Also, couples after five years of saving their marriage are very satisfied and just satisfied and couples that did not save their marriage in five years are very dissatisfied. 

I know quite a few people who have gotten a divorce and now they are happy and love their lives. And I know that divorce was a pain in their butt, due to having to pay their ex spouse money and money for their kid to live, and their ex spouse has been asking for a high amount of money and is putting stress in his life so be able to support himself and his ex spouse. But he is happy being done with being with her and is enjoying life. Some people are able to just be happy and get the stress out of their lives from the other spouse and that they are happier. Some people are able to find another person that they get along with and marry them and have a life with them. it can be a hard thing if each person has kids and you have a blended family. It can be hard having a blended family. Because you are not the kids parent you can not really discipline them because they will not listen to you and their parent might not like you trying to parent their kid. I think a lot of the time the step parent is supposed to be more of a fun parent, like they do not discipline and they want the kids to like them so they will let them do what they want so they will like them and they need their approval and want the kids to talk to them so they try to be or act cool around the kids and make it seem that they are laid back and the fun parent and they can talk to you about some stuff. divorce is a good thing but also a bad thing too.