Marriage

   Hey guys! So, this week I am going to talk about marriage! So, first off I believe that a marriage is between a man and a woman, because that is ordained of God. I want to follow God's council. I think that marriage is a great way to really get to know yourself and to really get to know your partner. You literally are spending your whole life with your spouse, so you want it to work and be in love with each other. 

   I have a lot of people in my family that are happily married. They all started out dating various people then went to exclusively dating, then they got engaged then married. I think that it is important to date various people before getting married. Also, I think that before getting married it is very important to be on the same page as the person, like on things like how many kids are you going to have or where are you going to life, or just important things that you need to figure out before living together and becoming one and united. My siblings are an example to me in how to date and to exclusive dating and to getting engaged. I like seeing how their relationships with their spouse are and how they were able to grow and strengthen their relationship with each other. I know it takes time and once you know you love each other, you want to be together all the time, and your relationship is growing and becoming closer to each other and strengthening your relationship. I can't wait to start dating and see where it takes me, and I can't wait to meet my future husband and have a family in the future. 

  I think that intimacy is really good for marriage. I think that it builds your relationship with each other. communication is key to marital intimacy. Women want to fell safe, warm, and close to act sexual while men act sexual to feel safe, warm, and close. Also, sex is a sacred act which brings each other closer in your guys relationship. The brain is actually the biggest sex organ. Also, I think waiting until after marriage to have intimacy in the relationship is good and brings you closer to one another and it just binds you close and helps the relationship. It helps you guys become one with in the marriage. Sometimes, it might be hard to never having sex, then like right after you get married its okay to have sex, you might not feel comfortable right away, but I know that it you will become comfortable with each other, and that intimacy will help strengthen your relationship with your marriage. Make sure to use protection is you don't want a child yet.

    I think that it is important to have a strong marriage / relationship before having a baby. I know that when I get married that I want to at least wait a couple years before having children. I want to build my relationship with my husband and to have fun with him and go on adventures. And I think that putting a kid into a fresh marriage could be every hard. I think that the more you wait and are more financially stable that it is easier and puts less stress on your marriage and relationship. But also, I think that having children can strengthen your marriage as well, but I do think that having a kid too early in your marriage can be stressful. I can't wait to have a strong relationship with my future husband and eventually have children.  


    

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